The Timid Me

Introduction

Until adulthood, we often spoke about "I" as if the world revolved solely around us – phrases like "I want to" and "I hope" dominated our conversations.

• Growing up within families that often prioritized our needs reinforced this self-centered perspective.
• When things did not go according to our wishes, we felt as though the entire world was conspiring against us.

The Illusion of Youthful Idealism

Before venturing into the real world, young people tend to believe that their own perspective is the only correct one and that the world should conform to their ideals.

• This overconfidence stems partly from a naive belief that they are destined for success and a perceived superiority over older generations, often attributed to advancements in technology and the passage of time.
• Even with our perceived intellectual superiority, we fail to appreciate that the roles will eventually reverse, and we may become the very generation that younger individuals view as resistant to change and clinging to outdated ways.

However, through time and the often-painful life lessons of falling, crying, and moving on, we gradually realize our own insignificance and the wisdom that often lies in quiet contemplation.

• Previous generations likely encountered similar challenges, wrestled with the same issues, and diligently sought solutions.
• Management decisions and plans are typically the result of careful consideration of the needs of various stakeholders.

Despite this, this youthful ego fuels our ambition, driving us to explore and experiment.

The Vastness of the World

Whenever I am standing atop a tall building or on an airplane, I am struck by the insignificance of human existence.

• We appear as mere ants scurrying around, whether in cars or on foot.
• The metallic cars that seem so sturdy and impenetrable from within appear like toys from a bird's-eye view.
• Consequently, we are equally powerless in the face of natural disasters such as floods or earthquakes.

Compared to the awe-inspiring vastness of nature, our presence on Earth is truly negligible.

• We occupy an infinitesimally small portion of the planet, that we claimed as home.
• Even if we depart from this world through accident or peaceful death, it will have no significant impact on the grand scheme of things.
• In the vast expanse of time, everything continues unabated.
• We are merely one of countless individuals who pass away every second.

While we may tend to believe ourselves to be the most brilliant among our peers, the often-overlooked reality is that many others are equally or more brilliant.

• Every era produces its own heroes and heroines, individuals who make significant contributions to society.
• However, we often fail to recognize the immense effort and dedication of others who are tirelessly pursuing their dreams.
• Many of these individuals remain quietly dedicated to their pursuits, their brilliance often hidden within their own focused lives.
• Only through active reflection and a conscious effort to look beyond our own perspectives can we truly begin to appreciate the remarkable individuals who enrich our world.

Summary

This realization does not diminish our individual worth, but rather serves as a reminder of humility.

From another perspective, we should also realize that very few people pay close attention to every detail of our lives, beyond our immediate family and close friends.

• Most people may offer judgment for a time, but they quickly return to their own concerns.
• Therefore, it is crucial to be yourself and live life on your own terms.